To all my sisters out there making the same choices over and over with the same wretched results, this one goes out to you...
It is soooooo hard to be honest with yourself about things that need to be fixed, it's always easier to blame other people... But we have the keys to giving ourselves absolute joy, if we do the work... Breaking patterns is hard work... So hard that often we need a professional to help us, or a really honest, upfront yet nurturing person to go on that journey with you...
So many women out there choose men that don't deserve them... Whether it's being insecure, feeling like better to be with anyone than to face the world alone, needing validation through partnership, whatever it is, there are roots to what becomes poor choices, and the roots are what needs to be pulled out, not just what they grow into...
One thing I promise you, we can all have a life that makes us happy, it's a choice, commit to it... We don't ever have to be in an unhappy relationship... No one has the right to hurt us, try and make us feel bad about ourselves, or try to break our spirit... Remind yourself of this! You have a right to happiness!
Women Who Run With The Wolves - Clarissa Pinkola Estes
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